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Anonymous asked: Any advice for what a cam girl should do while she's on her period? Is not working my only option? Thank you guys for having such a wonderful blog!! <3 You’ll want something in your pussy that handles the bloody mess without interfering with penetrative play or being visible. Lots of people like the Instead Softcups, if you can get them. They’re disposable menstrual cups that sit up really high so that you can still have sex. (I can’t vouch for them myself since I’ve never used them.) The other thing many people really like and use for this purpose is sponges (and this is what I use). You can kind of wedge them up high near your cervix so no one can see them and they’re soft, so they don’t get in the way of penetration. Bear in mind though that a full sponge, when squeezed, will RELEASE the moisture it’s holding on to! So change sponges often. Hope that helps! |
Do you have a goal in your sex work career or job?
Is there room for advancement in your branch?
What is your goal and do you have a plan to achieve it?
Is your goal something other than leaving sex work?
Do you tell others your plans and goals or do you hide them?
How do you deal with disappointment or feeling like your plan isn’t working very well?
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We received this from an anonymous contributor, and we ALL hope it helps.
*BOUNDARIES ARE IMPORTANT: How to get the best possible service from your sex worker*
* Nipples are sensitive. Ask your sex worker before biting, pulling, tugging or squeezing or doing anything else rough with them. For some people such sensations can unpleasant.
* Orifices are not access all areas. Ask your sex work before trying to finger either anus or vagina. Not all sex workers are comfortable with being penetrated by hands.
* Faces are intimate personal space. Ask your sex worker before kissing, licking or breathing heavily on their face, neck and ears. For many people such contact feels too invasive.
* Skin is individual. Ask your sex worker before licking or biting their flesh. People have different pain thresholds. And not everyone enjoys the sensation of being licked on their body.
ABOVE ALL SHOW RESPECT FOR THE PHYSICAL BEING OF YOUR SEX WORKER.
If you do this, inquire after boundaries and then abide by them your sex worker will be more motivated to give you their best possible service, which may include granting you permission to do things from the above list. The nicer you are to your sex worker, the nicer they will be to you. Remember that we are human beings and like to be treated as such.
** If you deliberately do not ask permission before trying to do particularly intimate things because you think your sex worker may say no, then you are an asshole who disregards the importance of consent. Do better.**
