You’ll want something in your pussy that handles the bloody mess without interfering with penetrative play or being visible. Lots of people like the Instead Softcups, if you can get them. They’re disposable menstrual cups that sit up really high so that you can still have sex. (I can’t vouch for them myself since I’ve never used them.)

The other thing many people really like and use for this purpose is sponges (and this is what I use). You can kind of wedge them up high near your cervix so no one can see them and they’re soft, so they don’t get in the way of penetration.

Bear in mind though that a full sponge, when squeezed, will RELEASE the moisture it’s holding on to! So change sponges often.

Hope that helps!
SWP

That would be your mother.

OHHHHHHHH! *rim shot*

Ouch anon. That sounds rough. There is totally this expectation that sex workers are rolling around in money, and always have extra, can always loan money or buy treats.

This mod has never been a primary breadwinner in a relationship, but has definitely been viewed as someone who should be giving her partners (and sometimes friends, too) treats, extra fun, and occasionally even large loans because everyone knows she’s a sex worker and clearly has more money than she needs. I’ve put up with a lot of stupid “sugar momma” jokes. They’re never, ever funny.

Your situation seems extra rough indeed, since it sounds like you’re supporting him with your earnings, and since this is taking a toll on his self-esteem. One of the major problems here is that so many of us are encouraged to find our primary identity in our employment, especially men. It sounds to me like your boyfriend needs to find something else that he can do, that will make him feel valuable.

Does he have any hobbies or crafts he likes? Crafts are great because at the end of the day, you can say, “LOOK I MADE THIS USEFUL/COOL/BEAUTIFUL THING!” Does he do housework for you? Repairs and upkeep on your residence, maybe, if not cooking/cleaning stuff. In one view, that could be emasculating, but in another, it could make him feel like your support of him is more justified, and like he does bring value to your life and your relationship, because he helps you out.

Or, cheesy as it sounds, he could go out and volunteer, which would give him stuff to do, and a purpose, AND be something to add to a CV for future job hunting. You can learn a lot of skills while volunteering, AND you can work for a good cause at the same time. It’s not all sloshing soup into a bowl unpaid crap labour.

As far as your own peace of mind goes, I’m not sure how long you’ve been together in total, but if you got together before he was unemployed remember that it’s simply not true that you’re paying to have a boyfriend. And if you’ve been together for a long time, or see yourself together for a long time, remember that this is what partners do. You support each other. Maybe one day, he’ll be able to return the favor. It sounds to me like he would LOVE to return the favor.

I hope some of that, any of that, is helpful. If any other SWs with underearning partners want to share their stories, we’d love to add your voices to the conversation!

Wow, I had no idea pussy had a sell-by date.

Quick everybody, we gotta move that pussy off the shelves faster! Before it’s nasty and used up!

Logic. You can haz.

Incest roleplay? Age play? The keyword is PLAY. People who want kids? Want kids.